Introduction:

Humility is often considered as a virtue, but in practice, it can have negative consequences. This post explores the power dynamic of humility and how it can affect relationships and self-confidence.

The Power Dynamic of Humility:

The famous quote by C.S. Lewis, “True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less,” highlights the issue with the traditional definition of humility.

By thinking of ourselves less,

• We can develop low self-esteem
• It can lead to submissiveness and a lack of authenticity.
• And, can create an unhealthy power dynamic in relationships as it can lead to submissiveness

Practice Gratitude instead:

A better approach is to maintain a sense of gratitude while avoiding submissiveness. This creates a more equal dynamic in relationships and promotes authenticity and freedom.

Conclusion:

Humility is an important aspect of personal growth and happiness, but it is crucial to challenge the power dynamic that often comes with it.

By focusing on gratitude and avoiding submissiveness, we can maintain a healthy balance in our relationships and promote personal growth and happiness.